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What Goes Up Must Come Down!!

September 5th, 2009

Zoltar Old Town San Diego

On my last column that I wrote I left you wondering what decision I was going to take in regards to my life. To answer that question I didn’t make one, or I did.

My world travels, my schooling and everything in between has been put on hold in order for me to pay down my debt. Will I ever take that path again to discover the world and see different cultures with no strings attached to a particular geographical location, a job, a person or a child? I’m not sure, as Robert Frost put it:

“And both that morning equally lay, In leaves no step had trodden black,
Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.”

Life has an interesting way of unfolding in front you and you never know what may lay ahead. I was thinking of this and missed opportunities while watching the movie Big with Tom Hanks. While watching the movie I discovered that everywhere you look and if you pay attention you see opportunity. This came about because in this movie Tom Hanks’ character wants to create Digital Comics, it took a while, but years later those have become reality in the form of RPGs and basically any video game that is out there today. You can also see in a scene that the device they are trying to use to play these Digital Comics resembles a Kindle.

Toward the end of the movie Tom Hanks’ ask Elizabeth Perkins character if she would like to come along with him. She responds by saying, “I’ve been there, it was hard enough the first time”. That got me to thinking about second chances and life. If you had a chance to go back to highschool and make the most of it, would you change the way you approached things?

How about now, looking at your life today, do you think in 10-15 years from now you are going to be sitting around saying, “If I had the chance to go back 10-15 years I would make different decisions.” I wonder how many of us would say that? When is it too late to start over and when is it too late to change your ways or learn something new. Is it too late for me to be an astronaut or a race car driver?

While watching Big I also discovered that this movie introduced me to my first cougar. If you think about it Tom Hanks ends up falling and sleeping with a woman much older then him, a cougar by today standards. By the way if you want to make a wish to Zoltar you can do that at Old Town San Diego, you never know it might just work.

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A Beginning, San Diego to Las Vegas

August 28th, 2009

SD_LV_001 First columns are always hard to write, in my opinion, because as a writer you haven’t found your identity with your audience or the page.

Having said that, this first column will be for better or for worst a personal one.

There have been pivotal moments that have shaped the direction of my life. Today I ponder one of those moments.

3 months ago, a woman that I was deeply in love with and saw a bright future with broke up with me out of the blue, telling me she did not see a future with me. It devastated me to the core and three months later, still does.

At the time, I had a modest income working as a teacher in one of the most desirable locations in the world, San Diego, CA. Two weeks after the break up I received word that my job was going to be eliminated. Subsequently my best friend called me and invited me to start my life again.  I decided to take up my best friends offer and do a workshop in Las Vegas, NV.

At this workshop I discovered that I had given up on my life years before without even knowing it. Unfortunately for me I didn’t realize that the reason I had given up on my life was because of women. Thus I decided to give up my apt and a full paid scholarship to State in order to pursue a girl I met in the workshop. What love does to some men! I left everything behind and relocated to Las Vegas. Thinking this was my chance to start new and build a long steady relationship. Unfortunately I hadn’t learned my lesson and things didn’t work out.

Now I sit at a restaurant in Long Beach, Ca pondering the next step in my life. That pivotal moment at the start of this column.

If I take this path it might change me forever. You as the reader will discover my choice in subsequent columns and the beauty the world holds.

Stay tune!!

Not at the Table
Carlos

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